I am so sorry your family has been torn apart by this religion.
Never a JW but at one point my son, his girlfriend and their baby (out all of you do not jump on me, that is their business not mine) were living with me all expenses paid for 9 months. Their behavior got so bad I changed the locks on the doors after much warnings. On move out day they brought her mother with to play guard dog so that I could not get anywhere near my grandson. I always liked this lady she has had a hard life. But these kids not really kids both 30 performed as usual that day very very disrespectful toward me. So they left my 2000 Sq ft home and moved in with her parents. They had 2 bedrooms here. They had only one there because it was a run down single wide mobile home and daddy charged them rent and they had to buy their own grocery and do their own laundry.
On move out day her mom saw exactly how they were treating me and all the disrespect, they returned one week Later well I had never heard so many please and thank you in my life. Their car was not fully in park before my grandson was in my arms.
They lasted 4 months in that arrangement started looking halfway between the two sets of grandparents which would be about 20 minutes. They now live 5 minutes from me. I have the best daughter in law we have a great relationship. I love here so much her mom just needed to talk to her.